How much of your life are you running from and hiding away? Maybe it's all about FLEES! No one really likes looking at their mess. So instead, a false reality is created, so the one that's being lived in can be forgotten. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact Marriage can be that way too. You wish it was the beginning when you first met. The tingling feelings in your stomach at just a glance. The voice resonating your heartstrings. The OMGosh, "He just touched me." Call it the good ole days. The days you felt alive.  A man asked me a question after we chatted for a while about what I do. "How do you stay in love after let's say 20 years of being married?" You know how my response started. Love is an action verb, not a feeling.  His look was puzzling. And the barrage of questions began. 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