When you have a great idea and then your spouse claims it. Whose idea was it anyway? And does it really matter? In marriage, it's easy to want to take credit where credit is due. But is it always necessary? Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT What if your spouse thinks of the same thing while you're at your parent's house? Who gets the credit? Is it better to give your spouse the opportunity to take the credit for the idea? This situation reminds me of growing up. You want to tell mom about a great idea for dad's birthday, but your younger sister beats you to it. Yes, it was your idea, to begin with. But does it really matter? Maybe it does when it comes to sibling rivalry. But in marriage, it's totally different. You both are playing on the same team. There is no one-upmanship. Letting your spouse get the reward/recognition isn't all that bad. In fact, shine the spotlight on your spouse. 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