Tension and friction in a marriage can ignite more conflict than companionship. What do you do when you feel trapped? This dissension and discord can disrupt any marriage. It can put couples in their corners. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT When pain exceeds pleasure, the pressure to change your partner becomes overwhelming and unbearable. You want change because you're tired of living in an explosive relationship. The thing is, that thought goes both ways. You are thinking it. Your sweetheart is thinking it. Then on top of that, you have your emotions. Extreme emotions start your day while frantic feelings end the day. There is no rest for the weary.  Stuff that goes through your mind —
- You want out.
- You know you're right.
- How did we get here?
- Something's gotta change.
You've just had enough! So what do you do to promote this change you so desperately want? You gotta rock the boat! The K.I.S.S. ~ Rock the boat!  First things first. You must know that safety is the priority! If you are in an unsafe relationship, you need to seek help immediately. However, if you know that you are safe and are ready to disrupt the norm and have an intervention, these are a few places to begin.
- Live out how you want to be treated. Don't let your spouse walk all over you. You deserve to be treated as a human being. With that being said, you need to treat your spouse as you want to be treated. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. (Luke 6:31 and Matthew 7:12) You must mirror this to your spouse. 
- Be prepared for resistance. Nobody likes to be pushed into a corner. And usually, they come out with their boxing gloves. But since you're prepared (meaning you keep your emotions in check), you know that you only control you, then you can gain some ground. 
- Set boundaries that support the change you are seeking. When you treat your spouse the way you wanted to be treated... When you prepare your heart and mind for resistance... It's then where your boundaries support what you desire for yourself. If you find yourself in a situation where your spouse talks down to you, then you set a boundary that facilitates the landscape that you will not tolerate this kind of behavior (i.e., walk away, etc.).
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