"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed." ~ Carl Gustav Jung Where in your dating and courting did you discuss your personalities? Most of us talk about our dreams, how many kids we want, and where we want to live.  Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT But looking at personalities directly is rarely a topic of discussion.  So what if you did look at your all's personalities? Do you think that would change anything? Of course, it would! Why do you think marriage is so challenging? You are doing life not only with another individual, but one with a unique personality.  When you connect two unique personalities, there are definitely sparks! So honor the transformation. The K.I.S.S. ~ Honor the transformation! Don't try and hide what does happen when you get married and as you continue doing life together.  Honor the transformation! See your spouse for who he/she is becoming. Transformation is change. So it's important to understand that your spouse is not going to stay the same, just as you met him/her.  Lead with patience. Change takes time and is a process. So don't set expectations as to when someone is supposed to be something for you.  Give the gift of you. Who you are becoming matters too. You have to be willing to look in the mirror and accept the process of transformation for yourself. Embrace your personalities together. Experience it as a benefit for your marriage. And most importantly, remember to honor your transformation. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. 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