If there is anything we wish to change in our child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves. ~ C. G. Jung Are you holding your child to the standards that were set for you growing up? Or have you lowered or raised those standards for your child? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT Being a parent does not come with a manual. And most are troubled with figuring it out when the kids show up. Talk about hands-on training. And it's so interesting as to what we see in our children and how we see it.
- Familiar traits, good or bad. 
- Attitudes with not always gratitude; entitlement.
- Mannerisms that are the same.
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