iPM listener, Vicky, learned her father had died 10 days after it happened. She then found out the funeral had already taken place. She describes the impact this has had on her - and her family's - ability to grieve.

BBC 5Live's Emma Barnett reads our Your News bulletin.

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Presented by Luke Jones. Produced by Cat Farnsworth.